Shakespeare wrote,
All the world’s a stage,
And all the men and women merely players;
and that one person in life plays many parts – ‘his acts being seven ages’ – which he goes on to tell us are from childhood to old age. So these famous words are about life more than the stage, or in a way how life is like the stage. It’s not about the stage itself. Which is too bad, because that’s actually what this post is about.
When I think about it, he could have also said that the ‘acts’ in someone’s life were made up not only of many ages but also different moments and moods, making us different people at different times depending on how we feel or who we’re with. That would’ve interested me a bit more. But Shakespeare was a sharp card I think, so he probably did say something like that somewhere else, which I just didn’t read or maybe did read but just didn’t get.
The school year is winding down, all the tests are done, grades are in and we’re in the last week cleaning up and doing social things. According to Mr Shakespeare, I’m still in the ‘whining schoolboy’ act – but those were different times and those ages don’t really match our own exactly.
No, in fact I’m pretty sure I’ve just moved into another act now which wasn’t on his list. It’s hard to put my finger on what it is exactly because although things change, so many things have stayed the same.
Something invisible is changed though, and I noticed it once in the circle of spotlight and again, in my favorite improvised monologue. That was the first night. On the second there was a mistake that bugged me and by the third I noticed the audience were too cool for school and could have laughed a bit more at our funny lines. Whatever. By then I’d already moved on to a new act.
And it’s not just me, it’s all of us and all our ‘exits and entrances’. It’s like a team I guess, but not one that plays to win against another, just to win by it’s own rules. Maybe ‘win over’ is a better way of putting it because there’s no competition and belonging to the group is easy
because there’s really nothing to fit into. If I’m not making sense to some of you, just try to imagine a club with no rules but to be yourself and have a great time.
Shakespeare knew a good thing when he saw it and probably didn’t want to brag too much about how good his life was compared to other people of his time. Not because he was rich or beautiful or because he beat another team, but because he could say things he wanted to even in disguise, and get better at it by his own rules and maybe feel a little rewarded once in a while, when other people liked it too.
Whatever. We all go our own way and do our own thing. Just let your ‘strange, eventful history’ be full of the scenes you want and not what others think you should have, that’s the important bit. Don’t be too embarrassed to take your bows either, no one would clap if they didn’t want to. And anyway, you might has well live it up now before ‘mere oblivion’ strikes – what Mr Shakespeare called the last scene.
Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste, sans everything.
I don’t know, but somehow I ended up talking about life, too.
© Della D. Marinis, 2009-2011
by Maddy Fürst





Good advice, Maddy! All too often, many of us allow others to choose the scenes we act in. Somehow, I have a feeling that won’t be too big of an issue in your life!
Superbly written as ever, Miss Maddy. Your generation is so much more aware of the questions than mine was. The issue of who chooses the scenes is an extremely difficult one, I think. Even those who believe they’re following their own inclinations are often just giving in to whatever pressure they feel the strongest. Those who truly follow their instincts are quite rare. But do try; I’ve a feeling that you’re blessed with an unusual level of parental support. It makes a big difference. I also think, by the way, that some of Shakespeare’s philosophy has arcane knowledge wrapped up in it, but I can’t prove it.
Lovely writing Maddy. It really got me thinking… You are so right about our lives and we do seem to play different people in different scenes everyday, like we are in some kind of Shakespeare drama. I feel this is quite natural and peoples characters can change over time which can be a good or a bad thing.
Quite often I feel like that some scenes are played over and over again until we get things right. The actors are different but the scenario and play are basically the same.
I do try and follow my own path and not swayed by others, but somehow we all seem to have repeat patterns and our part to play in life.
It does seem that scenes are sometimes played over again until we get them right, I know what you mean, Jo. I’m reminded of the film ‘Groundhog’s Day’ which is actually rather cleverly written.The main character (Bill Murray) tries one thing after the next to find peace within a loop of repeating time, and as it turns out, he just has to look at himself and make some changes in order to move forward. A little like the “you’ve always had the power to go home” message to Dorothy in Wizard of Oz. Blah, blah, I should have let Maddy answer this herself
but she’s off living life at the moment, not contemplating. Thanks for visiting Jo – if I’m lax on the blogging I’ll try to keep in touch anyway on FB!
Thanks for replying to my comment here. I have only just noticed it as I’m not very with it at the moment and not feeling to well with a cold. ;-(
I know exactly what you mean! I love that movie, ‘Groundhog’s Day’. If life is just repeating itself for us, I wish I could get away with some of the things that Bill Murray gets up to in that film! ;-D
Lovely to catch up with you again, Della!
Jo.
Hi again Della,
I keep visiting here to see if you have done a new post… I hope all is well. I know January is quite a mellow time after the excitement of Christmas and New Year.
I just stopped by to say thank you for the great feedback in my Etsy shop. I really appreciate the good feedback.
All best wishes to you and Martin in 2012.
Jo. xx